A proven 12-week program to save your marriage and rebuild real intimacy.
Most couples get stuck in endless relationship discussions instead of using effective tools that actually fix their problems. This program gives you a clear step-by-step system to restore trust, commucation, and intimacy—starting now.
This free 15-minute call could change the trajectory of your marriage.
- 100% Confidential
- Proven 12–Week System
- No pressure
We accept a select number of couples each month. If we’re not a fit, we’ll tell you.
Is this your marriage right now?
“You’re in the same house… but it feels like you’re alone.”
Maybe you’re lying awake after another argument, replaying what was said. Maybe the silence is worse than the fighting.
Maybe you’re sleeping in separate rooms—or sharing a bed that feels miles apart. And the hardest part is realizing how much the kids can feel it, even when you try to hide it.
Sleeping in separate rooms
Constant fighting — or worse, silence
Feeling more like roommates than partners
Thinking about separation, but afraid of the impact on the kids
Feeling unheard, unloved, unseen
There is a better way
You don’t need years of therapy.
You need the right help.
Most couples don’t need more talking; they need safety, clarity, and repair. In these early sessions, we stabilize the relationship, interrupt destructive patterns, and give you a clear weekly path that creates change fast.
REAL RESULTS
Restored. Healed. Thriving.
See what’s possible when you get our help!
THE ROADMAP
The 12-Week Process:
From Surviving to Thriving
We don’t just talk about your problems; we solve them. This is a structured, directive coaching process designed to equip you with the tools to fix your marriage permanently.
How the 12-Week Process Works
(Directive + Practical) We identify the pattern behind the fights, shutdown, resentment, or distrust—and coach you live in the moment.
(15–30 minutes/day) Between sessions, you’ll practice the exact skill we’re building. You don’t “hope it gets better.” You build it.
“We only work with couples who are serious about implementing these strategies. If you do the work, you will see results.”
WEEKS 1-2
Stabilize the Relationship
Immediate crisis intervention to stop the bleeding.
"The first session is crucial. You are likely in pain and anxious. Our first job is to stop the bleeding immediately."
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Ground you in hopeWe establish a safe structure and lower anxiety levels immediately.
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Demystify the CrisisIf there is infidelity or addiction, we demystify the issue and start the recovery process instantly.
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Identify Toxic PatternsWe identify the 'Four Horsemen' (like criticism or silence) and stop them in their tracks.
WEEKS 3-8
Rebuild Foundations & Skills
Acquiring thred fedeptional and relational intelligence.
"We shift focus from 'The Details' (money, chores, in-laws) to 'The Foundations.' You cannot resolve details without the right tools."
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Emotional IntelligenceLearn how to regulate your own emotions so you don't spiral during disagreements.
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Relational IntelligenceUnderstand your partner's true needs and how to communicate without attacking.
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Repairing the PastWe guide you through unchaining yourselves from past wounds so you can move forward freely.
WEEKS 9-12
Trust + Intimacy + Self-Sufficiency
Applying skills to solve core issues and deepen trust.
"Conflict is not the enemy; it is the road map to intimacy if done correctly. In this phase, we apply your new skills to the 'Details.'"
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Solving Core IssuesWe revisit those aligned issues (finances, parenting) using the new Conflict Resolution System.
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Rebuilding TrustMoving from 'walking on eggshells' to genuine vulnerability and safety.
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ThrivingYou graduate with a clear process to solve your own problems without needing a mediator.
The Marriage Rescue Institute Difference
Why Conventional Therapy Often Fails
If you’ve tried conventional counseling but walked away still feeling stuck—or like the therapist was just “refereeing”—you’re not alone. Many couples talk through problems without building the skills required to resolve them. Our approach is structured, and directive—focused on real change, not endless discussion.
Traditional Therapy
- Focuses on surface issues (money, chores, extended family) without solving the root cause.
- Positions the therapist as a referee between two opposing sides—often reinforcing unhealthy patterns
- Leave couples feeling anxious, unheard, or even more frustrated after sessions
- Endless talking with no clear roadmap and no defined end point
TRACK RECORD OF SUCCESS
The Marriage Rescue Institute
- Focuses on "The Foundations": Emotional Intelligence, Safety, and Communication.
- Directive Coaching: We guide you through a specific system for conflict resolution.
- Leave sessions with "Relational Homework" and lower anxiety levels.
- A clear step-by-step roadmap with a defined end point.
1. Stop the Damage
We create immediate safety. We identify the toxic patterns (screaming, silence, contempt) and put a stop to them instantly.
2. Rebuild Foundations
We teach you Relational Intelligence. You learn how to regulate your own emotions and understand your partner’s true needs.
3. Constructive Conflict
Conflict is the road map to intimacy—if done right. We give you a system to solve problems and rebuild trust.
Meet John Mark Kane
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist • Marriage Coach
Couples shouldn’t remain stuck while their marriage slowly slips away. The Marriage Rescue Institute was created after years of seeing people try traditional therapy and still feel unsure about what to do next. Often, what’s missing isn’t effort—it’s direction.
Whether you’re facing betrayal, infidelity, separation pressure, addiction, or growing emotional distance, our focus is to guide you step-by-step to stabilize the relationship, rebuild trust and create healthier patterns. We regularly work with couples who feel worn down or at the end—and help them move toward something steadier. The goal isn’t just to survive this season, but to build a marriage that thrives.
John is a husband and the father of four wonderful children. He holds a Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Western Seminary in San Jose, CA, and brings over a decade of experience supporting individuals, couples, and families through complex challenges.
His background includes more than 10 years in community mental health, 7 years in therapeutic wilderness programs, and 8 years in private clinical practice. John has extensive experience in addiction treatment—including sexual addiction, pornography, substance use, gambling, and technology-related issues—as well as family therapy, crisis intervention, and work with chronic concerns such as depression, anxiety, ADHD, and high-functioning autism.
At the core of his work is a deep commitment to helping married couples stabilize their relationship and build healthy, lasting marriages. His wide range of training and experience informs a grounded, effective approach to couples work. Outside of his practice, John enjoys spending time with his family, his church community, and adventuring in nature together.
Our Team
Certified Marriage Rescue Institute Experts
All of our coaches are trained in the same proven approach. Regardless of which coach you work with, you will receive the same high standard of care.
Karin Wiese
LMFT #147385
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
“You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.”
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I am shaped as a therapist by both training and lived experience. As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I know that even the most difficult relationships can be restored—because I’ve seen it, and because I’ve lived it.
In the midst of suffering, I discovered joy. In the midst of relational pain, I discovered the possibility of repair. My professional training includes a Master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Azusa Pacific University.
April Silva
LMFT #142789
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
“There is no mountain too high to be climbed.”
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I am a relationships-oriented therapist deeply committed to helping you restore your marriage. I hold a Master’s degree from the University of Phoenix and combine formal clinical training with lived experience to guide real change.
Are You Ready to Fix Your Marriage?
If you don’t get help now, your relationship will likely continue to deteriorate. We are ready to start right away. We only work with couples who are serious about doing the work. If you are “in,” let’s get started.
No Obligation • 100% Confidential
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I schedule an appointment?
The fastest and most efficient way to schedule your initial consultation is through the booking calendar on this page.
Do you offer online/telehealth sessions?
Yes. Currently, all sessions are offered exclusively through secure telehealth video, allowing us to help couples regardless of their location.
How long does the process take?
While every situation is unique, the basic Marriage Rescue Institute Coaching Package is designed as a 12-week process. This timeframe is typically sufficient for couples to experience significant growth, stabilize the relationship, and begin thriving.
Can you help if there has been infidelity?
Yes. Infidelity and broken trust are common issues we address. In the first two sessions, we work to demystify the addiction or betrayal, reduce anxiety, and instill hope. We have a specific track record of restoring marriages shattered by infidelity.
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